Saturday, 28 July 2012


Fear of Failure or fear of success???

We are so familiar with the fear of failure, but do we ever consider how we fear success at the same time.

How can we fear what we desire the most????

When we fear "failing" and we fear "succeeding" what is left is MEDIOCRITY, a place where an overwhelming majority of us are living.  Maybe never to know how powerful we can be...

I just finished the book called Life unlocked by Dr. Srini Pillay he wrote a chapter on the fear of success, it was so incredible to me to realize how I could relate, so in today's blog, I will share a few of those fear so that we can know about the obstacle that can stand between us and our goals, and take the appropriate step to remove them and move forward.

  • the fear of not being able to maintain success
  • the fear that success will attract people or opportunity that will pray upon us
  • the fear of losing our identity
  • the fear of competition
  • the fear of the unknown

Just to name a few

Does any of those sound familiar?  Those are just excuses that we repeat to ourselves, to prevent us from moving toward the life that we desire?


Now that you have acknowledged that your fear of failure is, in fact, a fear to succeed, you need to give yourself permission to step into your power and begin on living your life from this moment forward.  You are the creator of your life and your experiences.  Give yourself permission to live the life that you want.

As you embrace your fear of success, you can face your reality, You can now accept what is and make all your choices consciously from a place of love and acceptance of who you are at this moment.

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Monday, 23 July 2012

Self empowerment and success

Everything that happens to us happens for a reason.  And sometimes one thing lead to another.  Instead of locking yourself up in a cage of fear and crying over past heartaches, embarrassment and failures, treat this situations as your teachers and they will become your tools in both self empowerment and success.

So when does self empowerment become synonymous with success? Where do we start?...

  • Stop thinking and feeling as if you are a failure, because you are not. How can others accept YOU if you cannot accept YOU?
  • When you see others that you envy for any reasons, STOP YOURSELF RIGHT THERE, and focus on your own beauty, stop focusing on self pitying.
  • When people feel down and low about themselves, help them up.  Do not let yourself get drag down in other people's negativity and misery.
  • The world is your classroom, always be on a learning mode - learn from all your failures.
  • Take things one step at a time. Changes don't happen overnight, self empowerment is a process of taking lots of small steps that ultimately adds up to something extremely beautiful and profound.
  • Set meaningful and achievable goals. Don't try to become the exact replica of your idols, take the goods from each of your teachers and make it yours.
  • Little things mean a LOT to other people. A little "hello" or "how are you" or even just a smile can make somebody's day.  So always be grateful for all that is around you.

We should always remember there is no such thing as overnight success.  Be grateful for every moment of your life which has brought you to this moment here and now.  You have probably heard the classic quote: " When the student is ready, the teacher will appear."  We are all here to learn our lesson.  Our parents, school teachers, friends, colleagues, neighbours...they are all our teachers.  When we open our heart and mind to the path of self empowerment, we increase our chance of happiness, success and lasting inner peace. 

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Saturday, 21 July 2012

Do you know what time it is?

I am here to tell you what time it is

It is time to be who you really are.

It is time to take the bull by the horns, look him straight in the eye and say..."This is who I am.  You got a problem with that?"

OK, maybe not as forceful as that and maybe you could just start with the family dog :). You get the idea.

It's definitely time to come out of hiding.

The one who let's others take credit for her work, her ideas, her brilliance. It is time for you to take credit...

The one who does all the behind the scenes work and never complains.  It is your turn in the spotlight.

The one who always agrees to the wants of others, at your own expense and dissatisfaction.  It is your turn and you are IT....

Don't waste another month, week, day or a minute allowing anyone or anything to keep you from shining your light.

You've waited long enough, THE TIME IS NOW, and THAT'S what time it is

Be yourself, shine on....

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Monday, 16 July 2012

It is your obligation to be rich!

It seems like there has always been a conflict between money and religion.

As if being rich means that you cannot be religious. As if want for more money means there is no love for God.

The true measure of your wealth is found in your ability to manifest and create the world around you to fit your vision or your greatest life.

I firmly believe that God wants all of us to be rich so that we can experience the incredible life he has created for us.

It is not about having or not having things, it is about the experience.  We were brought up with the saying: "Money doesn't bring you happiness" but how come the most needed thing on heart right now is more money, money gives you freedom, and freedom brings you happiness, if you turn money into evil, well that is your choice, When you have the money you can do good, not all rich people are greedy, rich people do the most good for other, why are we so jealous of them????

God blessed up with the knowledge and talents to build the most extraordinary things (beautiful homes, cars, cruise ship)...  so we could experience the best of life , so why are we preventing ourself from enjoying them. Why are we limiting ourself  by saying that it is best to leave those things behind.

Gob blessed us with free will and a strong mind in order to choose to experience all the abundance he has place for us to enjoy during this life.  But we don't, we are ignoring them.  He made sure that we see them often to remind us that we can choose the life that  we want, we can choose to be free.. But we are so afraid of what other people might think and say about us, that we rather be miserable and pretend to be a good Christian.

God wants us to be RICH, God wants us to experience the best that life has to offer.  That is his gift to each one of us.  We are only here on heart for a short time, I believe it would be an insult to him If I did not do my absolute best to see and experience all the amazing things he's created in this world.

God is by definition a creator, which mean the closest you can ever get to God, is when you allow yourself to  use the gift he is given you to design and create your greatest life.

Whether they are your friends, your family, or your co-worker, DO NOT let other people poverty mentality infect your mind and your spirit.  They are slaves in a prison of their own making, because they do not have the confidence or belief that they deserve all that life has to offer.

Your destiny is unlimited abundance if you are simply willing to accept that gift and take the first step to change your life to the one that you truly want and deserve.

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Friday, 6 July 2012

Think Big!

What is your plan for financial freedom????

What is your plan to improve your current financial situation?

Maybe your plan for the future is to work until your die or put as much money as possible in  your retirement savings fund (401k and others).  While this is fine for many of you, it doesn't work for me.  I want to enjoy my retirement years doing all things I love to do, frankly I don't want to wait until I retire to do all the things that I want to do.

It is time to create bigger goals, and stop listening to the negative people, statistics and naysayers out there.  You don't need to live below your means.  Whether you want to go out to dinner, pamper yourself on a day spa, or take a vacation,  take the whole family on vacation... whatever you want in life...  You now need to  figure out how to increase your cash flow and use your financial education to pay for it.

You need to be open to leaning, go and learn about how to create passive income, wealth building tax strategies, real estate, commodities, business and more.  You need to determine your wealth goal, apply what your lean and build your future.

I know this is not easy, but you don't have a choice... unless you want to work for the rest of your life and retire poor.  I want you to be all that you can be, all that you want to be, so what is your first step? What are you going to do today to start obtaining the life that you want?

Whatever your dream may be in your mind...Whether it is unlimited time with your family, a new dress, a new car, the chance to work full time for your favorite charity or your dream home... having the financial means and the ability to say: "YES, I can make this real if I want" is the ultimate expression of wealth that someone can experience.

With your active income replace with passive income, you will have an infinite amount of free time.  You can now work and create because you want to not because you have to.  

That is being rich, that is wealth....

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Tuesday, 3 July 2012

Why do I need passive income?

Because now you have a JOB!
By the way, J.O.B. stands for JUST OVER BROKE as in what you are if you are living paycheck to paycheck.

When you have your own business you can:
Build your own dream instead of building someone else's dream
Own your own time instead of your employer owning your time
Build an asset that you can sell or leave behind as your legacy instead of building someone else's dream
Unlimited potential and income instead of having a job description.

PASSIVE INCOME helps you get out of the rat race and be financially free

So you ask what else can I do to bring in a passive income?
well more to come on that

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